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Me - 2007-01-04 13:13:03
do my comments work?
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Me - 2007-01-04 13:13:24
Then why does everybody use notes? It's crazy!
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Me - 2007-01-05 11:48:41
Hey honest! Good to see you. Glad that you found my diary, and have enjoyed its contents. Actually the reason I miscarried was there was not enough genetic material to make a baby. And as for my son, he's happy, well looked after, and quite smart for a kid his age. Thank you for your concern. Hope your new year is coming along well!
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Jayme - 2007-01-06 05:04:10
WOW, lets see... it is almost five in the morning, I am working on no sleep after a stressed fill week and YOU, Mr. Honest, whom I am sure will not have the balls to return to this site after posting something like that, has pissed me off beyond belief. Not only did you say the WORST possible thing EVER to say to a woman, something that HAS affect me personally but you said it to a woman I adore and love above all!
Al may be insane, I would NEVER argue that, I rather enjoy that about her and I know she would tell me that I need not defend her either. BUT I happen to know for a fact she is a great mom to an adorable loving well adjusted son. She also knows me well enough to know I am a HUGE mothering snob and I do not give that complaiment lightly.
I am not going to bother to say anything else because honestly you are not worth it, but dear sexy Al is always worth defending...
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Me - 2007-01-08 08:17:42
Ahhhh. Well, since there are no pics of me up here to help anyone to determine whether or not I am sexy, I believe I know who mr honest is. And he's just bitter because I never wanted him. And that I have completely ignored him for well over a year now. As for being a good mother, yes, I am a good mother (I am extremely touched to hear Jayme say it). And I'm a bit crazy. But I think the crazy bit helps with having the patience to deal my adorable toddler. It also helps me cope with the complete sanity of my life - good man, good job, good kid, good friends - it's all so "normal." If I wasn't a little crazy, I'd probably be bored half to death!
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Two Cents - 2007-01-09 09:30:56
Talking about wanting to cheat on your "good man" is really sexy too, by the way.
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Me - 2007-01-09 11:59:35
Mr. Honest, I very highly doubt that you are smart enough to put anything together, except perhaps your head and your asshole. And you're wrong, I did not think I was sexy at last year's christmas morning. I was at my sister's house with her kids, and it was 6 o'clock in the freaking morning after staying up til nearly two putting their trampoline together.I didn't realize my shirt was open until after I reviewed the pictures. So instead of "trashy whore", try thinking "tired aunt." Although, based on what I write in this here internet entertainment journal, that is exactly what you're meant to think. So I'll take that as a pat on the back. As for Lucian being ugly, now I know you're a scorned ex. I don't think that any random internet browsing person could possibly think that.
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Me - 2007-01-09 12:01:10
P.S. I am glad that whether you have decided to want to be my best friend, or you feel you've found someone to have a flame war with, that you have enjoyed my writing so much, that you have gone looking for more. Maybe I should try doing my stand-up.
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Me, once more - 2007-01-09 12:06:44
Two Cents, being a good man, and being good in bed are sometime two very different things. I've had boyfriends who were excellent in bed, but were lousy people. I've had boyfriends who were great people, but couldn't figure it out in the bedroom. And as for wanting to cheat, I believe that is still different than actually cheating. Besides which, don't you think it's kind of similar to guys who picture their favorite porn star while boffing the old lady? It doesn't mean they don't love her, it just means sometimes they wish for a little excitement. And as for 'trying to be sexy,' I'm not. I simply am sexy, and I can't beat the men off of me fast enough. Can't help it, it's just true. Ask Mr. Honest. He is maintaining his anonymity so that no one can prove that he took me to see Judas Priest when I was 7 months pregnant, and then asked me to marry him - after we hadn't seen each other in over 5 years.
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Essence - 2007-01-12 18:19:40
I had to check out the pics for myself after reading Mr. Honest's comment about you being a trashy whore and your son being the ugliest kid ever.....as for the trashy whore part, i would have to agree. How could you not know your shirt was open? You were looking down! I totally buy the trashy part. Your son is not necessarily ugly...but he does look like an evil elf! Oh and since I've seen pictures, I thought you should know that you are so not sexy. Believe me....I know sexy!
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Jayme - 2007-01-12 21:54:35
Excuse me, Essence but when we the last time you stayed up all night AND breastfed a child. I could not count the number of times someone had to inform ME that I forgot to button up my shirt again. Hells but the time I got around to breastfeeding my last one I just stopped where a damn shirt and bra all together. You can think it makes someone trashy all you want, really it is just easier. Personally I think it is bullshit that if it was pictures some guy posted up wearing nothing but sweatpants on a christmas morning, no one would think anything of it.
As for whether Al is sexy or not, I have watched the men drool... I have seen her in action. She oozes sexy! But then she knows this.
As for her son being an "evil elf", you have not read enough of her stuff apparently, she will only take that as a damn good compliment.
See I have told you Al, this world is just not ready for amazing sexy women such as us... we scare them!
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Essence - 2007-01-13 10:29:31
wow...no shirt or bra by ur last child? i guess u 2 are really in the same category.....thats just nasty! I see now why u defend her....ur a match made in heaven. I'm sure she does ooze.....but i doubt it's sexiness! The world will never be ready for that...yes it is scary.
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Jayme - 2007-01-13 12:48:48
And tell me Essence, just WHY is that nasty? Because society tells us that it is "improper" for women to walk around without a shirt? Which is only because men can not help but view breasts as a sign of sexual enjoyment instead of what they really are, a source of food for my children. Do YOU hide in a closet when YOU eat, or even under a blanket? Do you realize how uncomfortable it would be to be tucked in a blanket, shirt falling into your face when all you are trying to do is eat? You have any idea how uncomfortable that is for the mother too? Fumbling with clothes, trying to keep them up but not so far up that people *gasp* may see skin? You damn well better believe I learned the ease of just going topless whenever I could. If you believe that makes me trashy, that is YOUR issue. Personally it just makes me comfortable with myself and my choice to breastfeed easily and on demand for my babies.
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Jayme - 2007-01-14 19:56:58
Nope, four kids... 20 daddies. And what makes you think I am white?
I love how when women are not ashamed of thier bodies we MUST be whores. This of course does not stop men from jerking off to Playboy, though...
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Me - 2007-01-15 08:35:05
My, my. But we all had a riveting weekend, didn't we? Let's set some things straight. I was a breastfeeding mother during Christmas '05. I had left my shirt open accidentally, and hadn't noticed until the pictures were viewed later that day. I was at my sister's house - hardly the place to pick up men, or "try to be sexy." I put the pictures up on a page that, at the time, no one knew about, not to show off my MILFness, but to give my child - the evil elf - some memories of Christmas. Remember, that journal is for him. It is to let him know that his mother was not always the laundry doing, dinner cooking, sports practice team driver, super organized woman that I plan on being by the time he's old enough to have his own memories of me. I figure he will read it in the event of my untimely passing, or in the event that he thinks he is ready to start a family of his own. And besides, I figured that since everything is covered in that/those picture(s), it is really only as bad as letting him see me in a bikini, which he will see a lot of since we are moving to the fun in the sun state.
As for being trashy because I'm comfortable with my body, I do not know if the 'others' who are writing here are men or women. If you're a woman and you're ashamed of your body, I feel sorry for you. Call Oprah, I hear she specializes in making women feel good about themselves. If you're a man, you're a hypocrite. You want women to run around in Daisy Duke shorts, and midriff baring t-shirts, but the minute thay do, they're trashy. Well, guess what! I'm neither trashy, nor ashamed. I do not go out to places with children and families dressed like a two-bit hooker. I do however occasionally enjoy dressing like a tease when I go out to adult places (bars, late night movies with my boyfriend, and such). Speaking of which, what this all comes down to is what is acceptable for ME. Not you. You are not my parents, not my boyfriend, not my family, and not my friends. Jayme, as you may have guessed, is my friend. And she along with the rest of the people who matter to me, are not offended by the way I dress, or the way I behave. And so if you are offended by the way I dress, this is a free internet. Feel free to not read my pages. Of course, if you are intrigued, but need to show a front of being offended because you fear the backlash of having a polite society (one which is nothing more than other people putting up a front) dislike you, then please keep reading. I'll try to make my journal a bit more juicy for you.
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Essence - 2007-01-18 18:00:30
I love how both of you are up in arms about being trashy. You are both so offended that it is quite obvious that you are not as comfotable as you let on, but instead use your ugly figures for attention.....most stippers do! It is actually quite sad. You're not trashy because you like to be naked, your trashy for the way you present yourselves and by your reactions. There is a difference and you might be able to see it if you weren't so ignorant. Woman who are actually sexy do not need to dress like a tease in order to get the attention they so desperately seek. I'm sure your people are not offended by your wardrobe....you all more than likely have the same values/morals...or lack there of. It is quite amusing to me that you think someone is offended just because they express an opinion.....its a free country. I am in no way offended....you do not directly impact my life. I just like to share my thoughts. Please feel free to continue to be offended by my comments....it amuses me so much.
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Me - 2007-01-19 10:59:03
Essence, to be offended by a comment meant to be offensive, is not a character flaw. Amusing oneself by trying to hurt others feelings, is. You completely lack anything which may be considered intelligent, or interesting. And to be perfectly honest, No, you don't offend me, you make me giggle because you think your opinions are important enough to share.
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Really - 2007-01-19 11:52:31
The opinions on this site are important enough for you to defend and lash back at and drop yourself to the level of us morons that don't understand what its like to be a mom and Gemini and whatever other excuse you choose to bandage the fact that your a waste of space. Whatever helps you sleep better tonight. But if we're such unintelligent, uninteresting people, then why do you respond? Oh, I'm sure you'll say it amuses you that we have nothing better to do than tear apart an innocent mother who is just telling it like it is and striving to be better person. It makes me giggle that you keep it going. You put yourself out here, asking to be ripped apart. I guess you're looking for anonymous attention, good or bad. Kind of like a little kid, begging for attention from his or her parents. So it seems if they are not offending you, they are at least getting under your skin enough to keep reassuring yourself that "you're ok". :)
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Me - 2007-01-19 11:56:43
LOL! No, silly. If you actually could read and not have someone else read it for you and paraphrase the juicy stuff for you, you would have seen that I like to verbally spar with people on the internet. Regardless if they are armed or not. And I can tell you are feebly armed at best.
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Essence - 2007-01-19 12:29:49
I never intend to be offensive....I do however, give me opinion freely and if the person on the other end gets offended, then that would be their problem. Saying what you think of the low life people who insist on procreating is not a character flaw. It is a flaw to have children to fill a void in ur own life. Not everyone is fit to have a child and by reading the things that you post, i feel sorry for them. I'm not the one putting up all of my business (dirt and all) for the world to see. An attention whore is still a whore.
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Me - 2007-01-19 12:53:52
"I never intend to offend, or tell the truth, because when I've been called for my stripes, I try to make it look like I really have spots by useless distraction like using popularly mean words." Essence, do you typically patronize whores? Are you that lonely?.......................................................................... And just for the record, do you think that all the people who put up journals on-line are whores? Because I think you might have stumbled into the wrong website if that's how you feel. There are litterlly thousands, if not millions of people keeping journals online. And I'm not saying that they're not all attention junkies, I think it's mostly obvious that if you use the internet to self-promote whether it be MySpace, blogging, or personal websites that are merely ways to tell the world who you are and what you enjoy, then you are in some way or another an attention junkie. But I also don't think that in any way that is a terrible thing. I think it's way for the world to become more like a community, and less a big scary strange place.
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Essence - 2007-01-19 13:55:42
You really are ignorant. Of course not all ppl are whore who have online journals, but not every1 displays themselves in the manner in which you do. If you seek out attention (whether its positive or negative) you are still an attention whore. I thought you'd enjoy the attention you are getting from the ppl who leave you comments. You may want to start paying attention....you are making yourself look stupid. I don't patronize you cause i'm lonely (although i'm sure u'd love to believe it)....you leave this open for comments and that is exactly what i'm doing. You are doing a good job of telling ppl who you are and what you enjoy.....
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Me - 2007-01-19 14:20:35
Heee Heee heee oh my. I had to wipe the tears away I was laughing so hard. Just about every sentence you wrote up there contradicted the one before it. Not all 'ppl' with on-line journals are whores - 'ppl' who seek out attention (positive or negative) are whores = all 'ppl' who have online journals are whores, because the reason they put their journals online is for attention........................................................................ How is it I make myself look stupid? Oh wait I get it, this is just that you have run out of partially intelligent things to say, and have resorted to "Well, um, you're stupid! How do you like that?".................................................................................And if you're not lonely, why do you check this site every few minutes desperately hoping that I've responded? I have an excuse - I get an email that lets me know when you've posted. And yes, I do enjoy seeing my stats rise, and having comments, because one way or another, I win. Everytime somebody leaves an anonymous comment, I realize that they don't have the balls to do what I do, and they hate that about themselves. So they take that anger out on me, because I am a faceless "they" that they'll never be as good/cool/smart/sexy/wonderful as. It doesn't matter who *I* am specifically, I'm just a symbol for them to project their own feelings of inadequacy upon.
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Essence - 2007-01-19 18:09:35
Again....u make urself look stupid. Not all ppl w/ online journals tell the slutty tales that you have. Thats what makes you a whore. And you are not faceless.....i know what u look like. You are so funny....the things you say just so i'll respond....so i'll feed into it to see what other nonsense comes out. The part that cracks me up is that you have no idea who i am or what i do....you just make assumptions to validate the crap that you spew. Its cool, i know that this is all u have.
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Jayme - 2007-01-20 12:50:26
"I love how both of you are up in arms about being trashy. You are both so offended that it is quite obvious that you are not as comfotable as you let on, but instead use your ugly figures for attention.....most stippers do! It is actually quite sad. You're not trashy because you like to be naked, your trashy for the way you present yourselves and by your reactions."
One I have yet to see where I have lead anyone to believe that I am in anyway offended? I WAS pissed about the first comment, but then any person with half a heart would have been.(that would have been the comment about the miscarriage, in case you are slow)
The whole being naked, or half naked as the case may be, I don't see how I showed any evidence of being offended. I was simply curious as to how not being ashamed of my body and the TRUE function of my breasts make me trashy? A question that you have yet to actually answer beyond simply stating "There is a difference and you might be able to see it if you weren't so ignorant." Please alleviate me of my ignorance and tell me oh wise one... what is the difference?
And for the record, I am even more faceless then Al and yet assumtions have been made about me. I am not offended by them, I find them extremely amusing mostly due to the ignorance (seeings we love that word so much in here) in which you are basing your assumtions. Al is a single, white mother, I am friends with her and defending her so I must be a single white mother too. I DID mention having more then one child, in a comment that lead people to believe there must be many, so you have no choice but to assume that I am a single white ghetto trash mother with different sperm donors for many children. Sadly you have been wrong on all points except on me being white.
And one last point, ALL people regardless of having an online journal or not seek attention. Humans are BUILD that way. Some may do it more often and open then others but it is a fact nonetheless. Consistently posting comments in someone's online diary though makes someone just as much an attention whore as the person posting the diary. Sure everyone is welcome to an opinion and allowed to decide that the things they read make that person a big slutty crazy whore, it is also human nature to judge. No one forced you though to not only POST your opinion (vs clicking that little red 'x' in the corner) but to continue to defend your opinion day after day. What do you think it says about you? If you wrestle in the mud with pigs, you too yourself are dirty... (hehe, Al, I just called us dirty little pigs!)
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mr. nobody - 2007-01-21 09:45:18
Well you certainly have each other convinced. Pat yourselves on the back a little harder. It's really easy to pretend your life isn't what it is when you can hide behind the internet and hope that no one here knows the real truth. Some of us do know, though.
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